Wife and I are 2 months in on the lifestyle. We have purchased black rings for our right hand, bracelets with "her stag" and "his vixen" on em and necklaces with our symbols on em.
What things do you do to show your in the lifestyle and what have you heard of other doing that are not the obvious upside down pineapples?
I hear people talk about the black rings all the time, but I know a few dozen carpenters, auto mechanics, electricians, and welders who wear black Qalo rings because they want to keep their fingers. I don’t think any of them are swingers.
If you’re that eager to broadcast it through secret signs, you probably broadcast it through your non-verbal social cues, too, and that’s what will really catch the eye of other swingers.
We’re a couple of years in and - at least in our area - there aren’t any secret handshakes or symbols.
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Correct - they’re silicone and will tear away if you catch it on a nail or machinery and won’t arc if you bump a live wire or battery terminal. They make lots of colors, but most people order black.
Non-verbal cues would be things like the two of you checking out other couples or singles. Speaking from experience, it’s obvious when a couple is checking people out together vs. covertly doing it individually.
Remember - if there was a universal signal, it wouldn’t be at all secret. The internet would make it known. Just ask the people in the retirement village with the loofas on their cars. 😂