So we’re a new couple, only been in the lifestyle for a couple of months now. We’ve had some small success in the beginning meeting couples that we talked to online. But as of late we haven’t had much luck setting up dates. We were wondering is everyone deals with this? We’ll have couples message us or we’ll message couples and there will be some initial conversations but when it actually gets to setting up a date the conversation always seems to fall off. Is it just a numbers game? Do we gotta message more couples? Is it because we don’t have any validations yet? Or is online just a waste of time? We know it’s definitely better going to events and meeting couples but at the same time we can only go to so many events, and we also prefer just meeting 1 on 1 with another couple. Anyway just wondering if we’re wasting our time talking to couples online? Any advice would be appreciated.

P.S. We are using paid sites.