My wife and I had always talked about her fantasy of seeing me with another woman. After a year or so we joined a lifestyle site. It was great and I would get a flood of dopamine every time we logged on. After 6 months of casually talking to people (two dates but no playing) we discovered that it’s really hard for us to have a sincere connection online. Either the energy/expectation/communication was not there.

We had been to a club here in Dallas a few times and realized that meeting people in person is hands down the best method for us. We got very lucky and found a single lady that we played with that night. We keep in contact and go out once or twice every few months.

Last month a couple approached us at a club and we talked for a few hours. No play was involved but he did have his wife flash me and my wife 🤤. We have since arranged a date for future plans. My wife and his wife exchanged numbers. It turns out my wife is a cuckqueen and she is a hotwife.

My advice is go out and meet people in clubs. Online is ok, but way too complicated for us.

Tl/dr: Go to clubs to meet people. Nothing beats a personal connection, don’t waste your time on sites.