So....my hubs and I have been in the LS for over 20 years, quality over quantity. We've been to a few clubs & have been a "repeating" couple to one that's closer to home for the last 3 years. I'm f51 & a confident bbw. My hubs is m52 & a strong farmer. WTH is with the cliques? The couple/couples that runs the club takeovers completely ignore us. Are we only a $$ for them? 🤔 Appreciate any feedback 😃
You want to be with the cool kids, understandable. It’s all about what you invest.
We rarely get out lately. When we do, we arrive at clubs or events as Outsiders hoping to make a connection. We see lots of folks in groups that know each other. They simply have invested more time an energy in the lifestyle and they have the relationships to show for it. If we had the free time to invest, we would too.
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Exactly. Everyone talks about “cliques”, but it’s just friend groups that know each other.
If you’re at a new event, it’s on you to be the extrovert and go up to people and say “hi”