Hi, it's Azalia and we are swingers and a Vixen-Stag couple. (I don't speak english but I try it)

In our own opinion, in this environment there are two super important things: communication and respect. -To start, you must be 100% sure. -Tell each other your insecurities and help each other overcome them. It is better to say what makes you feel bad because if you don't, it will be worse during the meeting. -"No" means "no". Even if you are already gathered at the place, if you don't want to have sex with the other person, say no. Do not remain silent out of shame. -Talk about your fantasies and respect if the other does not want to fulfill them. -Go to therapy if necessary. -Do not think only about your own pleasure, also think about your loving partner. -Establish rules, agreements and limits. -Say what bothers you. -Breaks in the environment are normal, take your time when necessary.