My wife and I recently became interested in the LS and trying to understand more about what a typical couple swapping experience (if there is one?) might be like. We're new but we have been to a club once recently which was really fun and we ended up only playing together on some couches that were in the open. We went to go again and maybe do some parallel play with some girl-girl play so my wife can explore her bisexual interests. If things go well we will graduate up to soft swap then full swap if that goes well enough. We want to work our way up but still are a little confused on what's a typical couple swap experience look like.

Do you often start with your partner then swap part way through or do you swap right away? Do you often swap back to your partner throughout a session or do you stay swapped most of the time? Is it more common to only swap partners or do things turn in to threesomes or foursomes at times throughout a session? We see a lot of talk of condoms being fairly regularly used but if you do swap back or start doing a threesome or foursome do you always change condoms in between partners?

Any other advice for a newbie couple starting out to help shed some light on common things in early play would be great. Thanks!