Hi community,

My bf and i have a little bit experience with threesomes (2 girls,1 man), and we would like to explore more. We want to do a full swap, we have not done this before and my partner (M) is a bit anxious to see me with another man. My man is a real macho, so it is a big thing for him to share me. He recognizes it is fair for me to have sex with men even though he does not like the thought. I really want this to be successful, because i also want to be able to have sex with other men and not only stick to threesomes with girls. What can i do to ease his mind and this process? Are there things i should avoid or are there ways to comfort him? I know the drill of discussing boundaries, and talking about each other's wishes/wants beforehand. But are there specific things i could do or say to him that would help things go smoother? Men and women handle things differently and i want to make sure he is ok.