We met this couple a while back, had dinner (which we told them we never really do, but did it anyways). We had all been invited to a party the following weekend and figured since there was attraction from the photos that we could maybe see if it could work. We didnāt play when we met. Then at the party we were friendly, but they arrived later than us and by then we had already made a connection. We had texted on and off over the weeks and then they asked if we had plans. My answer exactly- āweāre heading out to the local clubā. They said āoh great, weāll join you, but it will be late after we get off workā. They show up to the club closer to midnight. She comes to say hello (we are with a group of 6 other people and itās getting hot and heavy on the dance floor). He doesnāt really come by. Sits down nearby but not at our table. No big deal, we arenāt clingy and we already have connections with 3 other couplesā¦ We decide to head to a playroom with the couples we were hanging out with prior and because of that we donāt see them again that evening. I decide to text them the following day saying āI hope you all had a good time and really itās too bad we ran out of timeā. He proceeds to say he was thinking something was wrong with him. Iām not sure if we respond or move on. Iām all for LS friends. At this point, neither my husband or I want to play with them. Purely a friendship if anything at all. Am I missing something? I didnāt ask them to come to the club with us, they chose to. When you show up later in the evening, I canāt just bring you into our group especially when we are ALL vibing so well. Curious to hear if you think I should try to keep the āfriendshipā, ghost them, or be up front?
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