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We met this couple a while back, had dinner (which we told them we never really do, but did it anyways). We had all been invited to a party the following weekend and figured since there was attraction from the photos that we could maybe see if it could work. We didnā€™t play when we met. Then at the party we were friendly, but they arrived later than us and by then we had already made a connection. We had texted on and off over the weeks and then they asked if we had plans. My answer exactly- ā€œweā€™re heading out to the local clubā€. They said ā€œoh great, weā€™ll join you, but it will be late after we get off workā€. They show up to the club closer to midnight. She comes to say hello (we are with a group of 6 other people and itā€™s getting hot and heavy on the dance floor). He doesnā€™t really come by. Sits down nearby but not at our table. No big deal, we arenā€™t clingy and we already have connections with 3 other couplesā€¦ We decide to head to a playroom with the couples we were hanging out with prior and because of that we donā€™t see them again that evening. I decide to text them the following day saying ā€œI hope you all had a good time and really itā€™s too bad we ran out of timeā€. He proceeds to say he was thinking something was wrong with him. Iā€™m not sure if we respond or move on. Iā€™m all for LS friends. At this point, neither my husband or I want to play with them. Purely a friendship if anything at all. Am I missing something? I didnā€™t ask them to come to the club with us, they chose to. When you show up later in the evening, I canā€™t just bring you into our group especially when we are ALL vibing so well. Curious to hear if you think I should try to keep the ā€œfriendshipā€, ghost them, or be up front?

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