So kasidie has three pic folders. Our public pics have no face pics. Our certified folder is face pics, and our bsp is lots of dick.

We've met a few couples this year who open their bsp to us because that is where they keep their face pics. Maybe a boob shot at best. We don't reciprocate often because they have already seen our face, and we don't want to seem tawdry to couples that have a relatively tame bsp folder.

We have a new couple we really like (we had a successful meet and greet) who asked for access, and I'm hesitant to offer them a peek; I don't want to look super aggressive or feel like I am pushing their limits/potentially making them uncomfortable.

Swinger hive mind: how would you handle this?

Edit: Jesus christ people, ....its not a wall of dick picks its naked pix of the wife and I. As in:we have some dick and pussy vs they have no dick and pussy. Apologies if my stab at humor went completely over most of your heads.