Aloha,

My other half and I are looking to become swingers. He had brought it up to me and how he would enjoy it if he saw me with another male. We both never done anything remotely like this at all let alone with another person. I was just wondering if anyone had some advice or experiences like this where this seemed pretty overwhelming but exciting at the same time.

I've also tried to find ways to engage with other swingers on different websites but it does seem a bit challenging at first. If I decide to do this I want it to be a good experience, not just picking up a random.

Please let me know if this at all is relatable.

Best, 1989