How do couples from India fare in the lifestyle? I (F) do get a lot of attention from the M halves of the couples but my hubby does not do as well as I. Is this a norm across demographics or is it something to do with our ethnicity?
Indian couple here in the LS. My wife def gets more attention for a few reasons. But there is also an underlying exoticism about it. Fact is, people like going after the thing they don't get a lot of, especially in these types of settings. I don't mind it, I enjoy seeing my wife being pleasured. That's not to say I don't get attention as well. It comes down a lot to just personality and showing off our vibe together as a couple as well. My wife is a great entry point for setting the vibe in our interactions. I turn up the rizz and we both do what we can to seal the deal.
My suggestion? Make sure your hubby dresses and acts the part. The woman sets the tone, but he should be a nice piece of arm candy as well. This way you don't feel bad for getting all the attention, and he's not in a position where someone else just has to go along for the ride.
ETA: grammar / clumsy wording
yeah we've def noticed this too, but we've also experience a fair share of "oh we're pretty and exotic" so it can be a bit fetishizing. We decided to sort of turn that on its head and ask what have WE not experienced that we want to.
It’s bc he’s amazing and if someone doesn’t want to hookup with him, it’s obviously because they’re racist! No chance there is anything but his race that turns them off.
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Must be nice for you to not have to deal with the experience of not being white in a primarily white owned environment. It's funny how you - clearly not a minority - trying to whitesplain to minorities how it's racist of them to experience racism.