This weekend we went with my girlfriend to kitkat club in Berlin. It was our first experience and we had a great time. At one point we were having sex and a couple sat next to us to do the same, it was our first experience in parallel play and we loved it.
Unfortunately we didn't know how to interact with the couple so we just looked at each other. We would like to receive some advice on what to do in those moments to be able to connect with the other couple, since we are really newbies at this.
This experience seems to have awakened something in us and we want to go deeper but we don't know how, since we only went to Berlin for the weekend and we are foreigners residing in Belgium.
How to find parallel play situations? Is it better to look for another couple on the internet interested in that or go to a kinky/swingers club and try to make the occasion happen again?
We’ve been to a club a few times es now. The first time we’re only for us to explore first. We had a few people asking to join us when we were playing in the club. They other couples tended to ask if they could touch us. We liked that approach. And all were respectful when we said we want to play alone but they could watch.
I think the club is the best place to find people to explore this with. Everyone’s there for the same reason.
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