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Quick context: We (30 FM) matched (with 22F) on tinder. Start talking, proposed to go meet over coffee / have date and see what's next.

Conversation evolved to sexting, she shared pictures (we never requested photo), one had her face (no nude). Middle of sexting, she starts freaking out that she hasn't seen us. What if she doesn't like us, feel attracted, etc. We told her that we can meet next day for coffee (original plan) and obviously there's no obligation of anything... It's just coffee and anyone can say no. She continues freaking out if we are real, how she will recognize us, etc (I was really lost on why she suddenly freaked out).

We offered a videocall and ask what she wanted or how can she be comfortable. She said "nothing" and just blocked us.

A part of me feels like we dodge a bullet. Another part is like... WTF was that?

I'm not sure if this all went south because she's too young (lack experience? Doesn't understand she can say no at any point, etc.) or something else.

What do you all think?

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That was a single male Iā€™m afraid.

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