Pic collectors are going to be inevitable so that's why I always use the same six or seven. So they might feel like they're hustling the system or getting one over on us but it's something that is out there already of her.

We are honestly getting to the point that if we are mutually compatible we simply ask them to take a photo together with a piece of paper of the date. We don't rush them and just say whatever convenient over the next day or two. But that usually helps weed out the fakers.

We are more than happy too verify anyway that will make a couple feel comfortable, but I swear 90% of the so-called"couples" are just the married husband of the relationship.

NEVER send nudes and face pics until verified. One or the other is fine. Not both. Real couples will have ZERO problem verifying bc they’re in the same boat as you.

It’s reasonable to ask each other for a few pics when you start talking. But if pic trading becomes the centerpiece of conversation before verification it’s a giant red flag.

If it’s on SLS we’ll just ask to unlock their private album or send pics of them. We always send a picture or two of us when we message so they know what we look like as well. No need to verify more if they’re a paid member. We’ll just setup drinks and meet them from there.

If it’s on Reddit we always move to a group chat on Telegram or Snapchat to verify. It weeds out 95% of the pic hunters and single guys posing as a couple. If it is a legit couple but they aren’t interested in taking 30 seconds to each make a profile on Telegram or Snapchat, then we assume they won’t be willing to put in the effort to actually meetup and let them know to contact us when down the road if they change their minds. At first we would try to make concessions for couples not willing to verify, but it got exhausting and took the fun out of it so now we just cut right to verifying.