So the "not taking one for the team" seems to be a general well accepted rule...... however, I've done this in the past and I can tell you, not only was it not as bad, but I was actually pleasantly surprised. It very much pushed me toward getting over myself. He was a complete gentleman, very eager to please and was so into making sure I enjoyed myself I was blown away! It showed me that beauty is skin deep. I do have limits as to how unattractive I can go, but maybe those limits needed a bit of adjustment.
THIS IS ABSOLUTELY NOT AN INVITATION TO DM OR SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST. IT'S A "FOOD FOR THOUGHT POST".
Personality goes a long way for me. We met a couple last month where the wife was gorgeous (seriously a 10) and he was “meh” (a 4 at best). But he was well-groomed in pictures and seemed friendly on chat, so we agreed on getting drinks.
He was hysterical and flirty and just the best time. His wife was very introverted and my husband had to work his ass off to get her out of her shell. We ended up playing and had a phenomenal time. We’re meeting up again in a few weeks.
Gorgeous people aren’t always a blast right off the bat. And average looking dudes can be the best play dates ever.
You never know.
Never a great idea, but reminds of the time we both took one for the team at the same time, thinking the other was into it. Lol. Afterward we were both so disappointed that we let that happen.
Oops the wife just corrected me. DSM= dreaded single male not damn single male
Oops the wife just corrected me. DSM= dreaded single male not damn single male
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This is the male half of a cpl. We are a couple willing to play with single guys. But they all tend to trip over their own dick before they leave the gate. And they’ll pm my wife over ANY comment or post she makes. So that ending disclaimer made me laugh. Because, dsm!!! The thirst is real lol
Damn single males