Pretty broad discussion we had with friends, when some brought up that the lifestyle needs an anonymous "honest review" platform đ
In your opinion, what product, service or experience is definitely missing in the LS in general?
99.% of men everywhere, at any time, are wearing jeans and sneakers. Itâs the universal male uniform from pre-k to hospice.
Swinder. Tinder but swinging, specific catering towards couples seeking couples. Perhaps utilize a map with a decently broad system that shows who is in a general downtown area and who was looking to play. So you would know there are 15 couples within the downtown radius but it would not give exact locations but you would know they are at least within a mile of your distance set. Allow them to filter to allow single men to view them or to be invisible. Make it a pay website where you could do certifications as well
Clubs opening at saturday at 2 pm would be nice. We have small kids and babysitter are young and can't sitt deep in the night.
An SLS for 2023.
Men taking pictures of themselves that arenât just their dicks. Mirror selfie in your favorite shirt, you chilling in swim trunks by a pool, the literal bare minimum. Out on a date where you got dressed up? Hand your smart phone (I know you have one) to your spouse who probably has a great eye and get some good photos. Give me something to work with please.
Swinging is boomerville and much of that is present in who runs things for many reasons: lots of you donât have small kids to account for, you have more career stability/money, own property to host whatever you want, have been in your relationship long enough that this is the sexual kick it needs, I get it. An injection in swinger culture from millennials and Gen Z would be great. I imagine that looking like sleeker clubs, less enforcement of a gender binary, more allowance of queer people, better apps for connecting, using preexisting social media for connections more than individual apps (much like a finsta) and lower prices for events. I could be unrealistic but these come up top of mind.
Daytime events that donât revolve around being in lingerie/club culture. There is a yoga night at my local club that attracts a very small crowd but a young crowd and itâs nice to do something swinging related and get a relaxing workout. Swinger dance class, swinger hot springs, swinger board game night, swinger high tea, swinger nude portraits/painting (a la Titanic), letâs innovate!
English isn't my first language and it's mostly self taught. So i don't always get possible ambiguity. In german, it would probably make way more sense
This space is too fractured. Too many websites and apps. The community is already relatively small, and all these different options make the community smaller and more difficult to connect.
I think a lot about having a swinger Insta or Snapchat. Snapchat photos delete in 24hr and notify you when a screenshot is taken so it would be awesome for group chats among couples. Kik is overrun with ads in a way that almost makes it unusable. Iâve heard Telegram and WhatsApp are popular too. Insta is great because you can connect it with your swinger FB account and have an easy way to post up to date photos. It would at least help with the issue of outdated photos which I suspect is something thatâs not as much of an issue for younger people in general. Stories are useful too, like if youâre at an event and itâs popping you can post it in your story and tell folks to come by or vice versa.
I did the conversion from CAD to USD for your prices (~$74, ~$60, ~$19 respectively) and I think those are reasonable prices for an event at a club for sure. The yoga session I mentioned is $20USD per head in cash regardless of gender for example.
From what I can tell among most vanilla Gen Z/Millennial folks, "swinging" as a term is derided but not the practices. People do things like group sex and threesomes but they donât call it swinging, theyâll call it by the act. I tell friends that I go to sex clubs as opposed to swinger clubs. I think the latter is more loaded and has negative connotations. Maybe I should be the change I want to see in the world and claim it with my chest but whatever. I think they would be annoyed/horrified to see some of the 90s era sites asking for ladies and gentlemen to dress a certain way, itâs simply not of the times.
I assume there was probably something similar out there but I'm not up to date on every single app, specially locally it seems only three are popular and the rest are very very hit or miss
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Have you been to a club without a dress code?
My goodness, I think thatâs enough to cure most peoples dress code reluctance. âDress to impressâ doesnât mean anything to most lifestyle men.
âThis is my clean hoodieâ