I’ll elaborate; husband and I, early/mid 40’s, professional types have found that we very much enjoy sharing our sexual adventures but it begins and ends on Reddit. I am far to risk averse to swap fluids so I know that actually engaging in anything with someone else would be a no for me but I think we would be highly turned on by being near others who are of a similar nature. Are there couples within the community who don’t swap but encourage each others fantasies? I’ve looked into a few night clubs I’ve found online but frankly they look kind of run down and think I would turn right around for the exit if the lights were on; would we stick out like newbs? I don’t know how much interaction with people we would be comfortable with since we’re both relatively introverted but very voyeuristic.
Google seems to be lacking in search results, are the the LS websites for meeting people a resource for a better list? The one attached to this sub doesn’t have any for our state and some of the others I’ve clicked on just to see don’t seem to be open/valid anymore.
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How many ‘no thank you’ scenarios happen this way? Is it a vibe killer or is there a polite way to set ourselves up just to watch?