Hi. So like the title says we're new to this and there are so many terms that when I've tried to post on any sites I get 100 questions and no one has explained when I asked just stopped talking to me. My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years happy relationship. I brought up the thought of having some mutual fun with another couple something hes been interested in we set some rules and discussed a bunch of situations that could arise and what we both want out of it. Just simple fun sex no attachment just that to see each other having pleasure and give pleasure. I've been on 3 apps for swingers and multiples an nothing came of it. Were both clean, polite, friendly but after hi no one says anything more. Is it because we wont cuddle or have dates? I'd love to have someones outside perspective any advice are these apps just bs? All advice is welcome thank you!