Yesterday was another milestone on our journey through swinging. We followed the advice we got yesterday, put our joyful and optimistic suit and a bottle of wine from our collection. 45 min later we arrived. Though the party was organized and advertised on SDC, no one from the SDC participants' list was there, except for us and the hosts. So me doing my homework and reading all the profiles, was for nothing. (A small red flag on top gmfrkm those from last week.) Ok, more people to know. We got the house tour and finally we were presented with our room. Had no idea we could spend the night there, we weren't prepared for that (no contact lenses solution and I had my own alkoholfri beer). But ok, we'll think about it and after 5 minutes debate, we decided to sleep over.

We got to meet the others. The men were all in better shape than the women. I wasn't attracted to any man so far and I think it had contributed to it my recent surgery which made me refrain from getting oral and penetration would be only from behind (the only position I could do). Anyway, we had drinks, dinner and talked about what we like and don't like. Ok, I was the most vanilla of them all! Most of them had no limits, like anal, raw, bdsm, dp, dvp, wet play (the guy who said he loved drinking golden showers fell off my radar instantly, no offense, but its just not to my liking), you name it! My husband was the only straight male and me and another wife were the only straight women as well. After that, the fun started, two women giving bj to the male host, other kept going on the soffa, me watching. My husband joins the group with the male host, gets some from one female, the other ignored him. I intervene, I take over and give head to both the men. And here it comes what it puzzles me. After giving the head, i took the male host (who was very interested in me since our date) and went downstairs where his wife was playing already. I came up with the rules of not separate room and I can't explain why I did that. My husband was already readjusting and started playing with another female. I got to play to another male, kissed a trans, gave a bj to him/her (we were free to use whichever pronoun we liked). He was a very tender kisser, unexpected in those circumstances. I've noticed the male host went raw with the single female. He didn't wash himself after that and I said no when he approached me again. That's another red flag above the others. Two hours later we all took a break. My husband said for him was enough. He could have kept going for a other round, but he saw no point in it. It couldn't be better he said, he had to do all the things he hasn't done before or for quite a while: anal play, giving and receiving, coming in mouth (I heard her insisting), cum kissing, DVP (I encouraged him to do it).At home he was still aroused and excited by everything.

So, some reflections after this: - my husband is bigger than the average and best stamina. Hearing other women praise him made me very happy - I have to start praise him in front of the other women (because one woman said her husband's penis has the same length and girth, she meant huge - in my mind was nope, nothing for me there). It showed I could take him in without effort, and while he was slightly thicker than my husband, my husband was bigger. So swinging makes you appreciate more what you have at home. - even if had reached so many milestones, he was in awe when we had reclaiming sex. He was happy we could have such amazing experiences together. - we felt comfortable to play separate room. We talked about not going solo though. It's an experience for us together as a unit. - I am definitely straight. - I was so turned on to see a guy giving a bj to another. That's on my wish list, to see my husband receiving (or giving!) a bj from a guy - I was fully relaxed and encouraged my husband to do the DVP. No jealousy or creepy feelings - I felt though slightly insecure when he told me about his anal play endeavors. He reassured me there's no way he's gonna crave that from me.

So thank you to all of you who, by posting or commenting, made our journey smoother. This sub is a real encyclopedia for swinging, it's my άλφα and ωμέγα for the LS.