We’re each others favorite porn star. Our greatest pleasure is each others pleasure.

I’ve tried to dissect this myself both before and after getting involved in the LS. For me, there is so much at play, most of which has already been mentioned.

There is a satisfaction in letting a women get a small taste of my husband but knowing I get to take him away after. It definitely vein and kind of a “mean girls” move.

There is always the “does he like the ways she feels better” etc that for whatever reason really turns me on. (We started this journey with me being somewhat of a cuck)

I absolutely love watching my husband have sex and receiving pleasure, even when it is with just me in front or a mirror or watching a video we made. The voyeuristic nature of swinging is simply a huge turn on.

The overall “tabooness” of it all also just amplifies desires. It makes me feel dirty in the best ways.

I always look forward to the reclaiming. The “I can fuck you better” sex that will often happen after.

Finally, for whatever reason, it makes me feel closer to my husband. So many relationships are based on sex alone. The fact that we choose each other at the end gives me a heartwarming feeling.

Same on my end. Seeing my wife has sex isn’t really some turn on for me. Seeing her be wild and enjoy herself is.