Iām so frustrated! So my husband and I are fairly new to all of this, just a little over 6 months. Weāve played with 2 different couples and I am feeling like Iāve gotten the short end of the stick. Iām bi, and we intentionally only play with couples that explicitly say that the wife is also bi. We get to playing and the woman is ok with me going down on her, but wonāt reciprocate. I feel like they just say that they are bi to get us playing, but she has zero interest in actually doing anything. I have no problem with the woman not being interested in me, but I wish they were upfront about it.
I donāt expect anyone to do something that they arenāt comfortable with, but both of these couples lasted longer than a one night stand and we actually played several times with each and nothing. Am I just really good at finding the pillow princesses, or is this a common thing?
I feel like itās actually kind of common. You get bi-curious newbies that only want others to ādo stuff to themā, or they like putting on a show for their hubby. I call these women fake bi and they are the worst. It feels like youāre being used.
Maybe only make out with the wife if she kisses you first. And then let her make the moves on you and if she doesnāt go for it, move over to her husband.
We try to weed out the fakes, but you never really know until sheās between your thighs.
Try asking when when your initially chatting what she'd like to do to you... if she gives a vague bullshit answer, sack em off
The male fantasy part is so true. And I love being apart of a fantasy, but at least tell me first.
We always confirm if the other wife is āfullyā bi, not just receiving
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 1 year ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/Swingers/co...
I think you might be missing the point being made above. Or maybe thereās a miscommunication here.
If a woman is willing to play with a another woman (receive AND give pleasure) then there is nothing wrong with that. Iām assuming this is what you mean by ābi-playfulāā¦I hope.
But if a woman says sheās bi because she wants the other wife to eat her out to put on a show for her hubby, but has no intention of returning the favor, then sheās an asshole. Those women are users and dishonest and itās not cool.