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My wife 49 and I 54 seem to attract couples that are way younger than us, I'm talking 25-35 years old. But this usually happens at takeovers or clubs, every now and then they reach out to us on line. We don't look our age, especially my wife, and neither of us act our age. We are very friendly and always laughing or dancing even if it's just us. Maybe our energy matches theirs and they are attracted to it. And it seems the younger couples don't care if my wife is straight and not interested in the least in playing with a woman. Yes, that has been one of our biggest issues. We prefer more emotionally mature couples that have been married for a long time but we usually end up playing with the younger couples by default and that the guys are more my wife's type physically. Not saying there are not a few guys our age that are fit, but they are extremely rare especially in our area. Any older couples have the same experience?
Almost everyone believes:
- They are a better than average drive.
- Look younger than their age
Before you argue, ask yourself if you believe both of those things about yourself. Most of you do, but statistically that can't possibly be true.
You're probably attracting them because you're fun, kind and honestly still pretty young for the lifestyle.
I think it’s a matter of being in the moment. You probably don’t get as much online as when they do a search they choose ages below yours.
But in person, you get to see things like energy, chemistry, etc that attracts them to you. In person, you are putting out a vibe that makes people want to engage you.
Younger couple so I can’t relate, but sent you a DM which probably proves your point!
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