I'm an LS coach, and one of the things that I've seen a lot of, and experienced personally, is a struggle when one partner wants to change the dynamic. You got started for one thing, or you dipped your toes in, but now one person wants to change that, and the other person is not so sure.

A lot of people will say, if you both don't want to do it then don't do it. And while that's sound advice, it doesn't really account for the reality of people wanting different things, and how to ACTUALLY navigate that situation and have that conversation. The reality is, you are different people with different wants and desires, and to just say "no" isn't really fair, and doesn't validate that person's desires. A deeper conversation is needed here.

Here's the link for that episode. Have you experienced this, and how did YOU navigate it?

The Confident Swinger Podcast: When Your Partner Wants to Change the Dynamic on Apple Podcasts