I am 54m, bi and my wife is 37”straight”. We love going to our nude beach. She gets very aroused after being there for a while. We both love people watching, looking at bodies and features. She loves seeing and commenting on other women; wow, look at her ass, she has great boobs, she’s gorgeous etc. When we have been with friends and drinking, she has gotten handsy with our female friends. No big deal. She swears that she is straight and wouldn’t play with another woman. She makes comments like “I would totally get up on Salma Hayek if I were a lesbian”. I have hinted that she should try it. She doesn’t get angry or offended, just says nope!
She knows that I am bisexual and have been with men before and she says that is a big turn on. So the fact that I’m bi and have no problems getting with the same sex isn’t an issue of she’s wondering how I’d feel.
A couple of weeks ago, we went to an LS club, which I thought was a very big step for her. Unfortunately, we got there late, there wasn’t a lot of action and the vibe was just not very good. It was our first time going to an actual LS club. We played pool, danced and drank. We walked around and checked the place out. I wanted to go into the main play area where she and I could play with each other but she was quite adamant about not going in. We have gone regularly to a couple bars that were known swingers hangouts, and we both love them. She loves the attention. Anyway, I feel like she may want to play with another woman but can’t let go of her inhibitions. I feel if we did some parallel or same room playing that she may try touching, or very light play. She has made comments that I have brought her out of her shell and helped her to be more confident. What do you all think? Had anyone been in our circumstance?