My wife and I have been with other partners after marriage (for sex only ofcourse) but have never swung per se. I often fantasise about us swinging (reading various erotica on this topic does that to a mind I guess) but I also remain cautious about how does it actually feel to SEE your partner having sex with another person. So far, the most we've done is have sex with a third person while the other spouse listens from the other bedroom, never in front of each other. Looking forward to listening to newbies' turned pros' experiences, or any experiences 😅.
Well we’ve not full swapped yet but I’ve seen my wife make out and play with a another guy all I can say was it was the most erotic moment of my life. We had talked and talked about that moment for a very long time so I was pretty sure I knew how I’d feel. I had no jealousy, only pride and excitement as I saw her pleasure and having fun. How do you feel hearing her?
We’ve set limits if same room at the moment. We want to experience each others pleasure. I think that also helps with what the mind can do filling in the blanks if we couldn’t see each other.
We may get to the point of playing separately but who knows.
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Then I guess you guys need to talk about it more before doing more.