My husband and I are planning a trip to Cancun and are trying to decide between Desire and Temptation. We’re new to the lifestyle and thought it would be fun to be in a sexy fun atmosphere that’s also judgement free. We both like the idea of our first experience in the lifestyle being on vacation where we can truly relax with no expectations. What we’re looking for is a party atmosphere where we can just have fun with other like-minded couples and if the opportunity presents great and if not we’ll have an amazing time with each other.
Which resort do you think is better for couple that are new to the lifestyle? We were also reading up on the Boobs Cruise. Do you think that’s something worth doing? Any and all tips are greatly appreciated. We’re both really excited, but also a little nervous since this is the first time we’ll be staying at any resort like this. Thanks!!!
Well, Desire is an actual “Lifestyle” resort while Temptations is a topless party resort frequented by swingers. Desire only allows couples while Temptations allows singles
Temptations is a nonstop party, even when you want the party to stop. Sometimes there can be bachelor parties there and you guys may get hit on by drunk single guys a lot. Temptations is less expensive, so you can get a very different crowd then you would at Desire. Desire RM is much smaller. Desire has an indoor night club while Temptations is outdoor
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Well, first, nobody is going to be inappropriate with you at Desire. If they do, report them. People will be very respectful. I don’t know your age, so I will be general:
Desire Pearl: 45-65 Desire RM: 35-55 Temptations: 28-50
If you aren’t sure, maybe do 3 days at one and 3 days at the other. They are a 20-30 minute cab ride apart