Hey everyone -

We are brand new to the LS. Short story is we went on something of a lark to Whispers in LV while on a trip and found it to be amazingly powerful time. We did not swap, just watched and were watched. It stuck in our heads, and we went to Secrets in FL about three months ago. Again, no swapping, except my wife did make out with some women on the dance floor. We were approached once in the playrooom to see if we wanted someone to join us, and we said we weren't there yet in our journey (may never get there), but thanks. They were cool with it.

But again, it stuck in our heads and so we were at Secrets again this weekend. And again, on the dance floor, my wife had a lot of women approach her and dance / make out. Plenty of men made the attempt when I went to reload on drinks or goto the bathroom, but she played it off. We aren't there yet. We may never be there. One particular woman, who we never would have looked twice frankly had kind of followed her around the dance floor. Dancy dancy, feely feely, whatever.

So we are sort of drunk and excited and goto the playroom. With the Gawd-Awful music in there, I just cannot get or stay hard, despite being massively excited. Oh well, I start eating my wife out cause it's fun and the background noise doesn't bother her as much. Suddenly, the woman from the dance floor is kind of laying next to, semi on top of my wife, and wants to rub her pussy. I ask my wife if she's OK. She says she is. OK. Then she's presenting her pussy to my wife. I ask if she's OK. She says OK. I keep fingering / eating her out and this woman is helping, whispering she thinks I should fuck her while my wife is eating her out (I had noodles, or would have!) Her husband is fingering his wife and trying to put his cock in my wife's mouth, and she pushes him back.

After reading posts here, and other (limited) experience in playrooms, this behavior didn't seem right. But my wife is digging it, and it is sort of hot. My wife cums, we back off and sit up. We tell them we really aren't there yet, we are brand new, etc. We talked a little, I felt other mans wife's breast. We walk off and go do other stuff.

It just seemed surreal; we never really talked to them about the thing, they kind of just jumped in. It was super hot despite the fact that we never would have considered them if we were going to swap, but just feeling other people so carnal and aware and in our space was, admittedly, sexy. Did not like how the guy tried a few times to put his cock in my wife's mouth; maybe if we'd had some conversation about it, or I don't know? We get back to the room, there isn't terrible music playing, and I fuck the shit out of my wife and twice more in the morning which is something of a record for my old man dick.

My wife and I talked, nobody is upset or hurt about what happened, but it still really seems kind of askew from what I've understood the process to look like, ideally. My wife says maybe they felt like they had an in based on the dancing/feeling each other up on the dance floor. (?) It is also a bit confusing to feel like the rules were broken somewhat, and yet, it is a burning hot memory from a weekend with a lot of hot memories.

What do?

Also, how the fuck do I get past the boom-booom-boom bullshit music in a playroom to a point where I can keep a hard on? I was diamonds when we had the relative silence of our room.