My wife and I are meeting a single guy to see about who he is for a future MFM. We have done this before, but the last time was really awkward for me. We were at a vanilla bar and after talking a bit my wife wanted to see if there was some chemistry. They danced by the bar a bit and kissed each other a few times with me right beside them. Across the bar I saw 5 people staring at me. They knew she was my wife as the guy was much younger. So fucking uncomfortable for me!!
How do you guys navigate that? What do you do?
Neither one of us are good with her being alone, especially with a guy she just met
Iâm good with her and him having fun. Thatâs the point of meeting him. Alternating wouldnât have been better. Still would have been a spectacle
I have no problem with them being physical. I just donât like people staring at us knowing whatâs going on. Makes me feel like a cuck, which we are not.
Nobody recognized us. Itâs that they all could tell what was going on. They knew she was my wife and she is making out with this guy 20 years younger than her right next to me. They were watching the spectacle
How would you feel if it was reversed? He was dancing and making out with a much younger woman right next to you at a vanilla bar?
How does that work? Sheâs trying to see if she likes him, not me
For you, as a woman, you feel like a queen. For me, as a husband, I feel like a cuck
Thatâs what I want, but for her she needs to feel that juice to know if she wants him
Literally 5 people were watching this happen. Just because it wasnât the first time doesnât make it less awkward
I have no problems with her dancing or kissing a guy. I just hate the feeling when people are watching the spectacle knowing full well whatâs happening
Itâs not about a place we normally go. Itâs people gawking at the spectacle of a much younger guy making out with my wife right next to me. Iâm ok with the making out, just donât like the looks they give us
I think a large nightclub would be much better as the more people the more diluted it would be. But we donât have anything like that here
I donât know. We arenât a Hotwife couple and she doesnât want to play alone (neither do I). I just want to vet him out and she wants to see if there is chemistry. I just donât want the world to see that part
I donât give a fuck if they kiss đđđ. Seen that a million times. Iâm talking about being in a public place and everyone looking at us knowing whatâs going on
Playing pool would be just fine. Iâm talking about making out with me right there and everyone watching
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Trust me, they were noticing đđ
And it wouldnât be âswappingâ as she would be engaging him while I watch TV I guess