We are a couple and privately responded to a single males posting. Basically we liked his post and indicated we were interested. After a brief exchange we asked for a picture of him to see if there was any further interest. We said that we would do the same.
His response was he wasn’t comfortable sharing a picture at this time and prefer to chat a while longer first.
We are thinking what is the harm in privately sharing a pic of yourself (without face), especially in this situation? We see tons of guys advertising themselves as being an extra with all kinds of pics in their profiles.
We don’t want to waste our time chatting some person up and sharing our personal life with someone we aren’t interested in.
So, is this a red flag? Should we ask him a second time? Continue chatting in hopes he shares something in the end or just move on?
I can see not sharing a full faced picture right away, we never do, but to not send anything is a red flag in my book.
We won’t even try and officially verify with someone on here without chatting for a while and exchanging a few faceless pictures.
If things feel right, then we will typically do a video chat.
We will share only after discussion as well on Reddit because we can’t risk exposure. However, talking on Kasadie works great
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