Wife and I have been happily active in the LS for about 5 years. Wife has a job that might get her fired if discovered and I know a ton of folks in your area. We try pretty hard to stay private. Having said that, it is a huge pet peeve when couples/singles reach out to you without opening face pictures.
Couple reached out to us this morning. We were very on the fence about attraction but decided to reply positively. Should have stuck with my rule of not replying without being given access to their face pictures but they wrote a very nice email and had a well written profile. They wrote back and said that they don't share pictures on SDC. OK here is the thing. First, we are all on these sites for the same reason, so if you end up knowing someone, you are there for sex as well, so just laugh it off and move on. While keeping their secret! Second, do people realize that ANY phone or computer can screenshot and save any picture at any time. Moving your chat to text, KiK, etc... will not prevent someone from copying a picture. Time for the LS is always hard to come by, so please DON'T waste peoples' time. I guess we are no longer on the fence for that couple. We wish them luck.