I (27/F) and my husband (37/M) are heading to Desire Pearl (8/31-9/5). We’ve been to some clubs but have never played with others. We don’t have any expectations for the trip other than to bask in the body and sex positive environment and enjoy each other; anything else is cherry on top.
I’m just feeling a little insecure because he’s in better shape than I am. He’s 6’1 and roughly 185lbs. I’m 5’ and 178lbs. I’ve read through many posts and replies and know that folks usually ease in and feel comfortable after a day or two there, and that all body types are welcomed. But I can’t help but feel the way I feel. I’m not in the best shape and I am working on it, but with a history of destructive eating habits, I also want to be kind to myself.
I guess I’m just posting for camaraderie and to see if anyone has words of advice.
I should say that other than the self pitying moments, I am really excited for this trip!
Once you get there you won't GAF.
You will be just fine. Confident women are sexxxxxxy!!
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