Hello, I (M57) & my wife (F52) up till now, we had made one other good match. It is one of those rare for a connections. However, we can’t play with that couple often because they live in Austin and we live in Houston. We’ve had trouble making a connection with a couple here in Houston. It can be very hard to make these four-way connections. One thing I find is that people, I believe, are skittish of meeting when they’re not real sure (based on looks alone) that it might be a match. We finally took a plunge on a couple that we weren’t sure would be a match for us based mostly on looks. I don’t want to sound shallow, but there does have to be some physical attraction, am I right?

And I’m not saying these people aren’t attractive, but they are (at least initially) the kind of people we thought we wouldn’t be attracted to. We have chatted with a lot of couples through SDC and Quiver lately. We are still chatting with a few of those couples. It’s been a lot of chatting, but no meeting. But since we’ve been having trouble making that four-way connection, we thought we would give it a try with this couple who had more interest in meeting us than we had in them. We decided let’s give this a try and see what their personalities are like.

They turned out to be the sweetest, most friendly and engaging two people we have spoken to in quite some time! We met initially for lunch at a restaurant and we talked for at least two hours. And then we decided to go to a wine-bar where we spent another good hour and a half. They then asked us if we would like to come over to their house later (no expectations) in the evening for drinks and take a swim in their pool. So we parted, my wife and I went home to take care of some business and they did the same. We met up later in the evening around 7:30 PM at their home. They had an extremely nice house with a pool and Jacuzzi in the backyard. And after some more short discussion, we put on our swimsuits and we jumped into the pool and did some more visiting but shortly thereafter my wife and the other wife removed their tops. The other husband removed his bottoms, and I kept mine on for now. I’m very outgoing and I am not shy, but I’ll say I am careful and guarded. Then then the other wife suggested I help her get some snacks and such from the kitchen. So we went inside and did that and came back out with snacks and some wine. The vibe was getting very strong though, and we separated to where I was with his wife in the Jacuzzi and my wife was with the husband in the pool. To make a long story short, I did remove my swim trunks and there was a lot of hot kissing and caressing going on. We made a very strong connection with this couple, and although we did not go any further than that, we are now going back to their house this Friday evening for dinner and I do believe that will be a lot more than just kissing going on.

They really surprised us! And we are both glad that we ended up taking a chance and meeting this couple! We have certainly met up with some couples that we thought would be a good fit and then after dinner we were totally not interested. But we made those initial meetings based I think, mostly on looks and perhaps the back-and-forth chatting that we had done. Whereas we were ready to dismiss this couple mostly due to looks/attraction. So I guess what I am saying is you might try giving it a chance even if you think initially, you weren’t attracted to the couple. Meet them, get to know them a little, and really see what their personalities are like, you might just be surprised. 😉