So to put some context I met this person a year and a half ago with her husband we had fun while and he watched our videos afterwards, in private when we first met she said it was the most times she ever orgasmed in bed at once( I’m not bragging or trying to make fan fic , I barely get laid and just randomly used my tongue finger and penis in the order of the least fatigued but apparently it worked 🤷🏿‍♂️).

Me and the woman continued talking through call and text after she moved, I visited her a few times and other than sex we hung out and went on dates in a way and our relationship is what I thought of really good friends. Yesterday she got extremely drunk and said she couldn’t hold back her emotions and basically hesitantly said she loved me while crying over the phone. I didn’t know how to react and after telling her I’m not upset with her for her emotions she said she fell in love with me after meeting me the first few times but held it back because of her relationship( 5 years of marriage). Today she told me she meant everything she meant while drunk.

I listened and said in another lifetime if she wasn’t married I could reciprocate but I didn’t want to cross that line of fucking up someone’s marriage or be the reason for it. Can I fix this I don’t want to stop talking to her but at the same time am I overstepping, I never made emotional advances or threw out anything that would seem romantic imo,I really like her as a friend but at the same time feel guilty like I am cheating.

I never been told this before by anyone in my life and it’s eliciting a lot of emotions from me when I heard it. We had a long talk and got our emotions out and I think we both feel good we did it and bad at the same time.