Not everything is always as it seems. We had an encounter recently that reinforced why we stick to rules and boundaries and to trust your gut.

We matched with a unicorn on an app and she seemed super excited to connect with us. Messaging was going well throughout the week and she wanted to set up a date for this weekend, AWESOME!

Getting closer and closer to the weekend, we started getting a few weird flags... not necessarily red, but warnings.

Shortly after matching, getting a chat going with the wife on snap chat, she deletes her profile. Hmm, maybe does it just yo keep notifications off.

She insisted on coming just straight to our house to fuck, pretty much no meeting and straight to sex. Found it odd since she hasn't spoken or even seen me the husband yet.

We stick to meeting in oublic first.. She changes date, time, and location several times. Keeps forgetting that she had XYZ plan already.

When chatting to the wife on snap chat, she wouldn't send any live videos or pictures, only pre saved ones.

Said she's an experienced unicorn, but condoms were NOT the norm for her.(This one was a BIG red flag)

Date day comes, we're spending the day getting our house cleaned up and freshening up our selves. The wife was to meet her at a nicer ish bar. Cock tail dresses are the norm sorta thing, unicorn says she loves this place. An hour before the meeting, she messages "I hope you don't think I'm ugly or not pretty enough!" Thought it was odd someone would preface a meeting with that. We're having a feeling we're getting cat fished or something fishy is going on here. Decide to follow through with the date, but make easy exit plans.

Wife shows up at the restaurant, immediately confirms we were cat fished. This woman did NOT put herself together at all and was severely under dressed for the date. She wore cross, to an establishment where the norm is dresses, and she said she loved the place. Hair a complete mess, no make up, easily 10 years older and 100lbs more than what was described. She was immediately rude to the wife and said she was overcompensating with the dress, said she was stuck up for making a reservation, and started attacking her once they immediately were seated.

Wife politely left before the drink order was even taken.

SUPER glad we stuck to meeting in public, using aliases, and not giving out any personal information. Trust you gut folks and don't settle just to scratch a fantasy itch.