Hi.

My(35F) partner(41M) is fantastic. Communication is top notch.

I've always been bi-curious, openly. No coming out to worry about over here. My mom asked me if I was gay when I was 13. But, I was nervous Nelly.

I'm interested in women and enjoy affectionate friendships. I'm not new kink, communication, or working through my shit to dismantle my shit so that's why I'm here asking for advice.

Im aware it appears that as a MF couple, asking for just a F interested in both is looking for a unicorn. And being unskilled with women is going to be a turn off... so I am seeking feedback in my mindset and goals and ideas?

I asked for this because I want this, and this man is has my trust for a reason. We are secure, communicate clearly and I felt comfortable asking for what I want, as he has consistently encouraged.

His response was that he would love to watch. If I want this, he would have 0 problem with 0 contact with her, and clarified that more is okay, but he wanted to assure me that he wanted this to be for me, about me. I want him there. As much as I want to play with an interested female partner, I wouldn't mind if she helped me please him too... except maybe not penetration.

Maybe just a naked snuggle touch fest... I'm incredibly open minded but socially awkward and fumble a bit. His presence puts me at ease and WOULD FACILITATE my experience.

I'm not looking for a NSA or a stranger, but instead a FWB who is open to MFF. We are primary, he's just a sweet Accessory.

And by FWB I mean an actual friend. I'd like to go on a few dates solo with an interested woman and foster open communication. I lean demisexual, I want to know her. He is not interested in dating her prior, but is happy to have neutral introduction and hang out with us and have open discussions, but reaffirmed the primary goal of me getting to know her and fostering a good vibe and communication.

Is this a proper outlook? How would I explain this dynamic?