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Question, how do couples find an extra guy?
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Just looking for information on how to find or how to look for a guy ? First time and unsure how
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Agree about Reddit. We’ve found great couples here but it’s tough to find a single guy. You run into a lot of guys who are on here fantasizing about the idea when they’re horny and will trade pics and chat then flake.
Also what you said about being in tune with the lifestyle in general. Guys here have been unwilling to get STD testing, weird about condoms at times, and sketchy/weird about when they want to meet or where.
Local bar?
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Have your wife find a guy she likes and both agree on him. Once you’ve decided, have her flirt with him. If he is open to her advances, tell him about your dynamic and if he would be interested in joining you. If he is, I’d recommend the husband have a private conversation with him about boundaries. If all is good, have fun!
We personally meet from SDC. We want a guy with some validations on there. We live in an area where there isn’t what my wife is looking for at the local bar.