Iām a married 27F who sometimes plays solo. I met a couple on 3Fun, and we hit it off! We set up a date, and I was super excited until some recent antics. The wife sent me a video on Kik of them on a date with another couple, and both wives were flashing the camera and touching themselves. Iām not into trading nudes before meeting because they donāt do much for me. I let them know, and they said they would respect my boundary. What I have an issue with is not being asked if I wanted them before the wife sent them. Itās gotten me concerned that I wonāt be asked for consent in other areas, and theyāll just go for whatever they want. I understand this is a do what works for me scenario, but Iām still wondering if Iām being too sensitive in debating breaking off our date.
Thatās a little too sensitive. They sent you a pic hoping to turn you on, digitally. Itās not that big of a deal
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Probably. I donāt think it shows any bad intent. They could have been drinking and said āyou know what, letās send some sexy pics to that sexy unicornā.