This is the third couple we would meet and we created a group chat to get to know each other. They are really nice and talkative. He doesn’t like texting as much but for the first few days I though he was enjoying it as he was very communicative and the conversation started to flow really well.

Well yesterday he stop replying to them even thought they keep asking questions and I kept reminding him because I know he forgets because his ADHD. He said he’ll do it later but all day today I watched him watch videos on his phone and still ignore them even thought they’re clearly talking to him. I keep “nagging” about it tonight I told him to at least have the decency of replying saying he’s not a big texter. He got really mad, told me they talk too much and he doesn’t owe them shit and he doesn’t even text hir family that much.

An hour ago I told him did you finally feel like texting? And he snapped, told me that I was obsessed with them, thar the only reason I want him to text it because I wanna fuck the guy, I started crying and he told me cry if you want I’m always the bad guy you’re always the victim. I ask if we could please talk and for him to calm down and be told me to shut the hell up. I basically chased him in the apartment asking if we could talk and be cool and he kept being passive aggressive and telling me go talk to your friends.

I don’t know if what I did ( nagging about replying) is so bad for him to get this heated, I honestly just thought it’s rude to leave someone on read after engaging in conversation. I just wanna know your thoughts