How important is it for you that the wife of the other couple is into you? Does she have to say it or at least show it? Are you someone who doesnāt really care as long as they are ok with fucking you? My wife tells me she thinks i need for the woman to be really into me, and i think shes right. The way i see it, if sheās not that into me then the sex will most likely suck. If the sex sucks, what am i doing this for?!
I actually just posted something similar from a womanās perspective. I NEED the husband to be into me. And I NEED the wife to be into my husband. Lackluster lovers are a waste of our time.
Flirting, laughing, winking, and a little touching (arm or lower back) go A LONG way for both men and women.
My hubby and I have kinda sucked at vetting couples lately (you can see why in my post history), but we had a long conversation about what weāre looking for and want in a casual meetup before play happens. Iām feeling pretty good about it, but enthusiastic partners is just a must.
Weāre both in this for an experience. A GOOD experience for everyone.
Itās very important to me. I donāt want her ātaking one for the teamā for me. I want an enthusiastic partner
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