I’ve been seen this guy for the past few weeks and we’ve had a really hot sex life. A few weeks ago, we’re headed to a strip club after dinner. A dancer, in the middle of a dance, offhandedly suggested a swingers club nearby (if you live in Dallas, then you probably know the one I’m talking about). We decided to go, not really knowing what we were getting ourselves into.

The moment we entered the club, I felt a bit lost. But as the night rolled on, I got into the groove of things and even found myself another guy I met there. My date was cool about it, stepping back to join the others watching us.

I have always felt like a bit of a closet exhibitionist if you know what I mean. In that moment, I became the star of my own show that night, feeling a rush I never had before. Now, I can't stop thinking about going back, eager to relive the freedom and excitement I found there.

For those already in the swinging scene, how'd you get started? Was it a spur-of-the-moment decision like mine, or did you plan it? I'm curious to hear about your first time and what you got out of it.