Hey Reddit! Wife and I are a low circulation LS couple, but the Reddit community has been such a helpful part of our journey that we wanted to give back and offer up a review of our recent experience at Playhouse LV for those who might be looking to give it a swing (both literally and metaphorically).
We definitely know how hard it can be to find a place thatās a fit or matches your personality, in, so we wanted to share some thoughts as a couple who can be a little bit shy in these settings.
If thereās interest in this post, maybe weāll write up a Moorea Beach Club review as well.
TL; DR: Weād highly recommend Playhouse LV. It was our favorite club experience to date and weād call it the blueprint for what a good club should aspire to be.
Playhouse LV - We read several glowing reviews of Playhouse on here, many that noted it was a young and good looking crowd. We decided to go on a Saturday night. We showed up close to 10pm (as the website encourages you to do) but most folks donāt file in until 10:30 or later (you have to show up before 12am).
Like a lot of these places, itās in an āindustrialā part of town (strip clubs and auto shops). At some point we drove through a pack of like 75 teenagers who were wandering the streets and we started questions our choice, but aside from an awkward conversation with your Uber driver (āIāve been dropping a lot of people off here lately! What is this place?ā) itās not far off the strip and is easy to access.
Iāll start with the crowd, since thatās what we all search for, right?! Playhouse didnāt disappoint! It was a legit hot swinging scene! Weāve checked out clubs in LA and PS, and Playhouse smoked them. The turnout wasnāt huge (maybe 20 couples) but generally, it was a VGL crowd. Age range was early 20ās through mid 50ās (weāre in our 40ās and felt like we fit just about in the middle). The couples matched and most were very fit.
The dynamic is really unique. Since play isnāt allowed until 12am (and thereās no alcohol allowed, though some folks navigate around this), the environment really forces you out of your comfort zone to chat with other people. They have an outdoor patio where itās easy to chat away from the music and get to know folks.
My wife and I can be a touch reserved at first, though as we saw here it was tough for everyone to break the ice and there were the typical ā8th grade danceā vibes where everyone circles each other cautiously before deciding if we could even muster up the courage to say hi. This is ultimately the best thing about Playhouse (at least for a few paragraphs) because you get to spend a bit of time making fun connections with people and learning about what everyone is looking for. Felt very genuine and nice to get to know other people looking to try new things and explore the boundaries of their sexuality.
We spoke to an attractive couple in their 50ās who were still finding their way in the swing scene and just testing it out (it wasnāt for them and they left before play started). Another early 40ās couple bailed and invited us to follow them to Whispers because they thought it was going to be better there (they didn't like the lack of booze or the small crowd). We settled in chatting with a couple in their 20ās who decided to check the club out as their first experience.
Once 12am hit, the host for the night (the owners werenāt there) grabbed a mic and we were told we were finally allowed to play. It was kind of hilarious.
A lot of folks wandered off down the halls to some of the private and semi-private rooms, but my wife and I decided to stay in the main area off the bar (thereās a bed, chairs, couches, and a second bedroom) and have fun with each other/put on a show (exhibitionism is a big part of the fun for us).
My wife and I grabbed a nearby chair and while she went down on me, two couples hopped into the bed for some group fun. Two more couples snagged couches and the 20ās couple grabbed the second bedroom across the way. Before long, nearly the entire crew who showed up for the party was having sex in the same room. If youāre into voyeur/exhibition play like we are, this was a huge turn on. Everywhere we looked, there were hot people fucking - moans and clapping asses in every direction. My wife rode me for a while before the 20ās couple came out and invited us into their room for some same room play (no swapping, just same good old fashioned same room sex). We happily joined (and I was reminded what early 20ās male stamina looks like). After my wife and I finished, we left the room and awkwardly picked up our clothes from next to an inconveniently located blow job.
As far as we could tell, there wasnāt a lot of swapping going on while we were there (we stayed for an hour of the play time), thought it seemed as if the momentum was moving that way as we wrapped up. There were a handful of girl/girl hookups and couple bed sharing, but Iām not sure we saw more than two couples swap. Weāve seen other reviews note this as well, but we didnāt view this as a negative since we were really just there to play with each other in a sexually charged environment, which Playhouse delivered.
A few other notes:
Couples were respectful, though one guy put his hands on my wife to try to pull her into play. It was easy enough to walk away, but it was a lame move on his part and a reminder that even the hottest couple in the club needs to follow etiquette.
It was a nice place! The couches were nice! The main dance area was classy. The staff is hot! They deserve a ton of credit for making this one of the more comfortable clubs to be in. Fun note: It still had some camp: I havenāt seen a single review mention the Pac-Man walls, which was our kind of style. (Bonus points for the Super Mario wall stickers.) No notes!
Wife and I really arenāt club people and havenāt had the best time at other lifestyle spots, so it was really nice to have someplace where we left saying, āWeād definitely go there again!ā A big thanks to everyone at Playhouse LV for creating a really solid club experience.
Yes. Everyone seemed a bit surprised. But it was far from packed.
It seemed like most people just chose to respect it. A few folks wandered in with water bottles, which presumably they had put booze in. If ya want to drink, itās not hard. Itās more that itās not an overt booze fueled party.
We went Saturday, but they were having an event that included single males Friday.
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