My ex (27f) and I (27m) broke up a week ago due to my desires for swinging, and I can’t help but feel I’ve made a mistake by letting her go.
We discussed swinging six months ago, and at present it is not in line with her values (although she is willing to explore voyeurism as an alternative).
For the past six months, I really struggled with the fact I might never get to do swinging in my existing relationship. We were perfect in every way, and we would’ve got married if it weren’t for this difference, but I felt I’d end up resentful if I never got to experience swinging.
Getting to watch my partner have sex with other guys, and us having sex in the same room, is so so hot to me (I fantasise about it a lot).
I feel so silly to give up the girl of my dreams for these desires (i was also seriously punching lol). What are peoples thoughts?
Well, you are searching for someone that you can live your life with. If you know in your heart that you are nonmonogamous, then you need to decide if she is worth suppressing that part of yourself.
Now that you’re single, when you do date, it would be wise to date women that have that same core value.
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