My husband and I after taking learning more about the lifestyle and having lots of open honest discussions on how it fits within our marriage are ready to take that next step. We booked a trip to Desire for this year and are both really excited! We’re definitely nervous too, but it’s something we’ve talked about for awhile now and feel like Desire will be a fun no pressure way to finally jump into the lifestyle.

My husband has a few concerns and I was hoping to get some insight from more experienced couples and those who have been to resorts like Desire before. He’s uncircumcised and at least in the US most men are circumcised. When he’s fully hard you can’t tell, but obviously being at a clothing optional resort it’s something he’s thought about. Do you think we’ll run into any situations where that will be a deal breaker? For the women, how would you react to finding out the male half of the couple your interested in is uncircumcised?

Another concern/question he brought up was the amount of pre-cum he has when he’s turned on. Even before we start having sex he starts to leak a good amount of pre-cum. Will that be an issue if he gets aroused while we’re enjoying the pool and daytime at Desire? And when it comes to playing with another couple. Is that something we should mention ahead of time? I was thinking I could be the one to mention it to the wife that way it’s less awkward. Do you think that will be an issue when we do meet the right couple?