I met a couple that I’ve played with twice so far and they both stated how they want to continue playing with me (single bisexual female) only thing is that I’m more sexually compatible with the husband than the wife. Before meeting I did share my boundaries which included no rough play, bdsm, or choking of any type. The wife actually into All of those things but she said we didn’t have to do any. I will state that she is a very dominant woman by nature, I didn’t know that until meeting her but she loves dominating her husband and taking the “lead” per say

My first time playing with them she started sucking my breast and clit really hard. To the point where my breast would be sore the next day, I have fibrocystic breast so my boobs, although small, are very sensitive. I never mentioned it because it truly slipped my mind and none of my previous partners are ever that rough with them. Her sucking my clit that hard didn’t necessarily hurt but it didn’t feel great either.

Whenever I tried giving her head she never really stays in one place for long, whenever I’m eating a girl out I like to take my time and finish her off, but every time I got any rhythm going she just jumps up and moves on to the next act which is a little frustrating. She also kisses me really aggressively but she kisses her husband really slow and passionate. She told me she was fully bisexual and have been with other women but I can tell she prefers men, which is completely okay but a little disappointing.

Her husband is the complete opposite, I can tell he likes to take his time which each step of sex. He ate me out very nice and slow and actually watched my facial expressions to see if I was enjoying everything. He is pretty big and girthy but once he was inside me he went slow and at my own pace until I felt comfortable to go faster. He has texted me both times after and asked what can he do better next time that feels good to me.

I do like the couple overall but I’m a little turned off from playing with playing with them because of her. I have yet to bring the issue up because I feel like that’s how she enjoys sex but I also don’t want to be in anymore pain due to her roughness. Is there a nice way of going about this?