Hey group. I am going to post after as well. Me and the wife are going to a meet and greet tonight at a lifestyle bar and of course I am over thinking everything. I’m trying to go into this without expectations. The wife and I are typically shy and I’m sure since this is our first time doing anything like this it’s going to be worse. Ideally I would like couples to come to us but let’s face it it most likely will not work that way. Any advice for approaching couples and how to say no to single males?
Easy for single males. Just tell them you’re not interested.
Remember, people are there to meet other people. It’s highly likely that many of the couples there already know one another. You just have to be able to introduce yourself many times with people. You can’t just wait for them. Put yourself out there and say “Hi! I’m…”. They want to engage people, otherwise they wouldn’t be at a meet & greet.
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If they did approach you, how would you respond?