So, I’m straight. Like, i’d rather have a gangbang of 20 men than play with a woman. And hey, that’s me and I’m totally cool if you’re bi but when the 4 of us play, I don’t want contact with you, which i make clear before play.
I feel like there’s this weird social pressure for women to pretend that they they’re bi (or claim to be bicurious or biflexible) to play along.
I’m not budging on my sexual preference and have been asked many times by the lady of the couple if I’m sure.
Damn straight!
There’s nothing wrong with not being open to everyone. Please don’t feel like you need to give in to social pressure. We’re not in high school anymore . (And please don’t waste other people’s time/effort pretending that you are and being a pillow princess. Shit, i can lie there for you to do all the work. But that’s just a shitty thing to do imo)
And men, please stop assuming most women are bi. Some sure but many are not. Just because you saw some lesbo porn, don’t expect us to play out that scenario for you
I’m so sick of girls pretending to be bi for their husbands. Like if you’re straight you’re straight! Why try to push something because your husband wants it. I can see right through it in a second and it’s a total turn off. Honestly we barely even connect with bi curious women for this reason.
I prefer when my husband finds straight women for play. They can really enjoy him and I don’t have to worry about being their guinea pig. I always feel there’s more pressure in those situations. 90% of the time there’s zero reciprocation.
I had to reread your comment because I thought it said you let the husband watch. I would not feel comfortable with that at all! Have you tried that in the past?
10000% you can tell from the profile! We just laugh when we see them now.
No one wants to be anyone’s guinea pig. I’m sorry you’ve had those situations too. I’ve felt unwanted walking away from situations like that. In the end the girl was uncomfortable with me and I just feel awkward. Once had a couple try to poach my husband after they realized the wife wasn’t “fully bi”. So gross.
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I can’t even tell you how many times we have encountered this. Thankfully we can sniff it out and not even entertain it. I hate the one penis policy!
Thank you for making this post! So many women are put in tough situations because of their husband.