Hi! We are a married couple in the late 40’s. We consider ourselves “virgins” in the sexual aspect. We never had any other romantic or sexual relationship with anyone else. We are our first boyfriend/girlfriend since our late teens. My husband has been wanting to experience swinging with other couples or with another female. Due to Covid we held that back, however now that things are back to normal my husband wants to start exploring. I’m a bit intrigued but I’m not 100% sure. I think it’s more of my moral dilemma as we both grew up in very conservative families. We don’t even know where to start. I know it’s long but what’s your best advice to complete newbies? We also have kids and one with special needs therefore meeting or attending events can only happen during daytime. Is that even possible? We are also not physically trimmed and we have our typical mom body or dad’s belly. I’m not sure if most swingers are physically fit. We live in a large metro area. Any suggestions or advise will be greatly appreciated.