My partner and I went to spend a week in Ibiza and we wanted to try a local club / party, I've looked around for recommendations (here and Google) but I didn't find much. I've found just a private party: "I'm a wonderful Woman" that will happen on the 26th of August 2023 and the Ibiza Liberty club. The place doesn't really have a good score on Google maps, it has mixed reviews so we've decided to give it a try. I want to leave here my experience because maybe it'd be helpful to someone else.
PREMISE
We live in London, so that is our main scene, in London there are plenty of clubs and parties. Abroad we went just to "Fata Morgana" in Amsterdam (we didn't like it) and "Flirt club" nearby Rome (and for us it is the best swinger club that we have ever been, hands down). I'm saying this just to clarify to what we are used to and what we like.
FULL DISCLOSURE
This review is the result of just one night, at the beginning of the summer season and it is solely based on our personal experience.
REVIEW
We went a Saturday night (couples singles night). The club opens at 11:30pm and it is located few miles from the town centre. We have arrived after midnight. There were only few couples, the bartender showed us around and she told us that people usually start to arrive around 1am. The entrance costs 70 euros (for a couple) and includes two drinks. The price for a highball cocktails is 10 euros, 5 for a soft drink and 3 for a coffee. We started the night having a drink waiting for the club to get crowded. The drinks are generous. The place is literally a big ambient with spaces obtained with wooden panels and curtains. One of these zones is a couple only zone. There are beds, sofas, gynecologist chairs, an St Andrews cross, glory holes and a cage in the middle of the main room. There are condoms available for free at the bar, there are also showers and towels available. You can't bring phones in but you can leave your stuff in small lockers (you need 1 euro coin to use them, you can change money at the entrance if you don't have coins with you) High heels and cocktails are not allowed in the play zones.
Working in the club there were: the main bartender, another bartender, the DJ, and a dancer. When we arrived the dancer was dancing in lingerie on the bar, after she moved on the dance floor and after that she moved through the couples, she didn't come to us, I had the impression that she was going to the shy couples and she was trying to let them into the atmosphere dancing and caressing the woman of the couple (but I could be wrong)
At the arrival the DJ was playing Madonna, Micheal Jackson, Abba, and other old successes from the 80s after that he changed to reggaeton and other music that personally I don't see fit in a swinger club. Consider that you are in Ibiza and there are good DJs literally everywhere we found the music really offsetting.
As indicated before more people arrived after 1am, more couples and few singles. We didn't feel attracted by anyone so we stayed by ourselves on the sofas chatting and drinking. To be honest the place was giving me some creepy vibes. I couldn't really pinpoint what it was that it was giving me that feeling, but my partner said it before I could even say anything to her.
The average age was 50-55 yo (we are in our early 40s), mostly couples and few men alone and I think one woman alone. Around 1:30am we realised that no more people was arriving to the place we decided to play between ourselves and we moved from the sofas near the bar to the one main common play area. Suddenly I've realised that I was followed buy a young guy (around 35yo, probably one of the youngest person in the club), I started to play with my partner and this man came few centimeters from us and he started masturbating. I don't mind people watching but he was really attached to us. Few seconds later he started to touch my partner back so I had to tell him to not to do it, he stepped away and we were going to continue playing when I've realised that other 2 men arrived (55 yo) and they start to touch themselves, still nearby us. I didn't care about them and we continued playing, after few seconds again the men started to touch my partner, she moved their hands away but they were staying there touching her hair. So I had to stop and say literally: "please don't touch my partner, look but don't touch" and everyone stepped away. I've moved my partner on one of the gynecologist chair and I've started to lick and play with her pussy and during this time the 3 men were trying to caress her and touch her and I had to stop again everyone. At the end I've made her cum but the entire process was really offsetting / upsetting.
After this unpleasant experience, we moved to the couple only zone, we wanted avoid any problem. I've laid down on a bed and my partner sat on my face, after few minutes I saw a man part of a couple coming to us and he went for touching my partner breast and she said no and she sent him away. All these events really killed my mood. Small personal rant: I don't mind people watching, I don't mind people touching themselves, but no means no, ask if you can join us and give people some space if you want to touch yourself. Read the room!
After that we finished to play and we left. To be honest we won't repeat the experience.
To be honest I don't know if we were just unlucky or it is the swinger culture in Ibiza, definitely less respectful than other places.
CONCLUSION
You don't have many options in Ibiza (or at least I didn't find many), the place is clean and cheap (at least according to our experience), the music doesn't fit with the environment. The place has different play areas. There were not even 40-50 persons but it is beginning of summer season. Be just aware of the creepy guys
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