Been Bi my whole life, been a swinger for around 1 year now.

Had plenty experience with a host of different folk.

Decided 3 months ago to give a apps a try in the hopes of finding another guy/girl or bi couple for semi regular fun and have had two dates and plenty off interest.

Have had about 10 dates to be... All of which canceled as close as 30 minutes before our first date.

That's disregarding the amount of men who apparently can't read: "Hey man, ill bang ur wife well you sit in a corner and wish you where her"

No where on any profile does it say "cuck" it does however say:

"Wife looking for woman or to join in with two men"

Just getting over it, all the wasted time waiting for dates who literally pussy out 30 minute before hand.

The thing is, eveytime we go to a club we have been very popular both me and my wife.. is it just apps?

I get that not everyone is bi, and that's fine but fuck me side ways if you put "bi and proud" in all caps on ur profile and then come to a date and txt us 20 minutes later saying " I'm actually hertro felx sorry but ill bang ur wife well u watch"... ur scum.

Just a rant, anyone got any tips or success stories at this point it starting to look like clubs are the only way... we are clean, tidy and healthy, workout 5 times a week, low fat, don't smoke, std free, practice safe sex. We also don't just expect people to jump into bed with us we always offer to meet first.

I don't know what we are doing wrong..