(34M) I'm personally not in the LS but I've been really interested in the last year. Unfortunately I'm in a long relationship now and my partner is completely not interested. Anyway I'm reading a lots of subs and try to learn some aspects of it.

Reading a sub from my area, I asked a girl who commented about Voyeurs. Since there's a lot of bad experiences with Solo Men, I was trying to know what's the usual behaviour towards male voyeurs in open rooms at parties or clubs. She basically told me that guys watching and masturbating where creeps, but not a couple. Another one told me this is because all abuse experiences women had before.

I would like to know if this is like the general conception. As I said before, I'm not part of the LS at the moment so, looking it from my position, It was hard for me to understand why a couple/group playing in a Club or party, in a room where they know they are going to be watched, find someone enjoying them creepy. I'm not talking about the type of guy that are pushy or try to participate where they are not invited. Just about the ones who look from the side and just like that.